Is Fear Keeping Us Dumb and Dip Your Balls in Coffee

September 13, 2022 00:18:36
Is Fear Keeping Us Dumb and Dip Your Balls in Coffee
Dogs Are Smarter Than People: Writing Life, Marriage and Motivation
Is Fear Keeping Us Dumb and Dip Your Balls in Coffee

Hosted By

Carrie Jones Shaun Farrar

Show Notes

W. Edwards wrote “Drive out fear so that everyone may work effectively for the company.”

Paul Zak says, “When learners are psychologically safe, they acquire new information easily because they have the cognitive and emotional bandwidth to concentrate on course material. Anxiety takes significant metabolic energy and inhibits learning.”

Join us as we talk a little bit about coffee balls, how anxiety makes it hard to learn and dog tips for life.


Don’t worry about anything. Just get your treats and snack and sleep whenever you can.


Paul Zak, Immersion (releases today!)

Our brand-new-amazing-creepy podcast is DUDE NO! It’s true crime with an occasional foray into the paranormal and macabre and it’s awesome.


The music we’ve clipped and shortened in this podcast is awesome and is made available through the Creative Commons License. 

Here’s a link to that and the artist’s website. Who is this artist and what is this song?  It’s “Summer Spliff” by Broke For Free.


AND we have a writing tips podcast called WRITE BETTER NOW!

We have a podcast, LOVING THE STRANGE, which we stream live on Carrie’s Facebook and Twitter and YouTube on Fridays. Her Facebook and Twitter handles are all carriejonesbooks or carriejonesbook. But she also has extra cool content focused on writing tips here.

Carrie is reading one of her poems every week on CARRIE DOES POEMS. And there you go! Whew! That's a lot!

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