Addicted to Self Help and Puppy Dog Eyes

October 18, 2022 00:16:50
Addicted to Self Help and Puppy Dog Eyes
Dogs Are Smarter Than People: Writing Life, Marriage and Motivation
Addicted to Self Help and Puppy Dog Eyes

Hosted By

Carrie Jones Shaun Farrar

Show Notes

This episode we talk about the two traps of self-improvement: the unworthy trap and the unapplied knowledge trap.

And also puppy dog eyes.

As Tony Robbins says (and Roomer quotes),

“Knowledge is not power…it’s potential power. Execution will trump knowledge any day.”

— Tony Robbins

DOG TIP FOR LIFE FROM SPARTY DOG It's okay to know who you are and go after what you want. SHOUT OUT!

The music we’ve clipped and shortened in this podcast is awesome and is made available through the Creative Commons License. 

Here’s a link to that and the artist’s website. Who is this artist and what is this song?  It’s “Summer Spliff” by Broke For Free.


AND we have a writing tips podcast called WRITE BETTER NOW!

We have a podcast, LOVING THE STRANGE, which we stream live on Carrie’s Facebook and Twitter and YouTube on Fridays. Her Facebook and Twitter handles are all carriejonesbooks or carriejonesbook. But she also has extra cool content focused on writing tips here.

Carrie is reading one of her poems every week on CARRIE DOES POEMS. And there you go! Whew! That's a lot!

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